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Which is why I decided to combine the two, in order to ask a very old question under modern circumstances: Can men and women be friends? More specifically, what happens when a girl bbut a boyfriend me genuinely asks a bunch of dudes on Tinder to be buds? My initial hypothesis was only that it would get weird.

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Some dudes were so cool with this it was almost suspicious.

Girls who find complete peace with their male crowd aren't suffering from girl deprivation; they just like what they like, and that's that. Once I started messaging, it was clear that even my platonic game was off. Needless to say, chilling out on the couch watching a great comedy in sweatpants on a Friday night friedns her mains?

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But no matter how nice they were about just being friends, it still felt like a trap. The difference was that they didn't come here to make friends. The guys in her inner circle may frieends be guilty of this as well.

This isn't saying guys don't have drama, but it's usually not a prolonged drama like some female soap operas. If anything, she's probably a tad more confused because she's exposed to a different side of guys on the regular.

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A friend is a friend at the end of the day. Totally down.

My initial hypothesis was only that it would get weird. The problem with making friends on Tinder is not that men and women can't be friends. For a few of them, this was only because it made them comfortable enough to admit that they too were in relationships.

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She's Not Some Guy Whisperer Just because she has mostly guy friends, that doesn't mean she has some unspoken playbook to decode men. Human connection happens naturally, no matter what gender you are.

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The people I'd probably be friends with on Tinder are the same people I could never be friends with while in a monogamous relationship because they're actually honest about what they're using the app for, not friendship. Which is why I decided to combine the two, in order to ask a very old question under modern gyu Can men and women be friends?

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A woman can still be feminine even if she gravitates more toward men as her friends. Because the girl with mostly guy friends is around this unfiltered honesty a lot, that way of thinking rubs off on her.

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When you don't want to hook up under those ubt, that makes you the weirdo and no one wants to be your friend. They came here to cheat.

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Girls with mostly guy friends have no intention of standing out. More specifically, what happens when a girl with a boyfriend me genuinely asks a bunch of dudes on Tinder to be buds? She's Not Opposed To Having Lady Friends Again, having girlfriends is great, but there are some catty qualities that could make any person want to stray away from them.

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Then I realized, it was because I was approaching it like I was single, swiping right almost exclusively on people I thought were attractive and then ruining it with my personality. It's not even that guys and girls guu it are too thirsty. Knowing many guys wouldn't look past my photo, I tried to convey my goals and boundaries in simple meme form. She's Probably A Dope Wing Woman Hey, who says a girl can't use her social skills to stir up a convo for one of her guy friends?

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I also triends automatically swiping right on anyone who had a picture with a dog, because that is the company I typically keep. were mixed.

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These type of interactions were gross enough to make me doubt the experiment all together, but I'm a serious journalist so I pressed on and learned a lot about how using an app steers communication. Friendship certainly precedes actual relationships in some instances, but it's definitely not the case for the girl with mostly guy friends.

So, before you judge the girl who surrounds herself with an awesome bro squad, understand a few things about her first.

I have guy friends but

Humans of the opposite sex are more than able to be cordial without intimacy. The only shared interest is looking at pictures of each other.

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Reassessing uave criteria for actually making friends, Guyy altered my approach, first changing my age settings to 27 and up. To their credit, not every dude was creepy, aggressive or a combination. My strategy was simple, repeat my disclaimer about only wanting guy friends and casually Goth dating having a boyfriend.

Give humankind a little more credit than that. Nervously rattling off bad jokes and outdated references, it was like I was having the worst type of flashbacks to being single.

It's that there's no jumping off point to gauge shared interests before you start talking. Tinder guys love to accuse girls of being a bot as a means of friendds, mostly in timelessly cheesy tone of "You're too good to be true. As much as I can't handle communication beyond this experiment, I can respect that.

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My hope was that older guys would be more amendable to friendship and not instantly assume it came with benefits.